Really?

Two times in the last month, my husband, who shall remain nameless, has said something that has given me the feeling that he is/was really in touch with how I feel. When he has said these things, they were a strong reminder of how much he loves and cares for me.

Okay, lets back up a second...it's not only two times that he's said something kind and loving...I am just focusing on two specific instances here, so read it that way.

Anyway, back to the point...he has said these insightful, caring things and I've thanked him, or just smiled and thought to myself "wow, that was so thoughtful, i have the best husband". And it's made my heart swell.

RECORD SCRATCH.

Unfortunately, about one week after each instance, what he so sweetly said before has come up, or I've reminded him of it, and he's responded with something along the lines of "Huh? I never said that..."

WTH? This is AMAZING for many reasons, but mainly two that I will focus on here.

1) I distinctly remember the things you said and even how you said them so very clearly because...they meant a lot to me. I'm not going crazy and I certainly wouldn't make these things up.

and

2) Why, crazy man, are you taking back something GOOD that you said that your wife was so excited about? Who does this? It's crazy...and I tried to make this point as he was vehemently telling me he doesn't recall saying such a preposterous (amazing) thing by saying "Okay fine. Maybe you didn't say it. But if you really didn't- why didn't you?" To which he was sort of dumbfounded.

I'm perplexed. I'm annoyed. And I want revenge.
Here is one way you can help me, dear readers...next time you see my aforementioned husband, casually reference something recent on my blog or even just say how much you enjoy reading it. See how he responds.

I'll explain later. ;)
Men. Ugh.